Now, this weekend has been an emotional rollercoaster, I’ve noticed how much I would have missed if I had followed through with what I was thinking just over 3 weeks ago.
Not being able to see my nephew grow up, or hug my sister or being around my family, now things have been a little crazy lately, I’ve made some life-changing choices and taking actions, this is where I think the new mindset, sets in.
I don’t tolerate disrespect on any level, people who disrespect you after being there and showing them respect are not the people you want in your life.
Take this lesson early or you will always be disrespected, never trust anyone and if you do, do it with caution, a best friend is not a best friend if they disrespect you.
I have worked way too hard to get to this point, remember people do an emotional stock take once a month and if they add no value, get rid of them, you have every right to get rid of them without an answer as you don’t owe them anything and why respect someone who doesn’t respect you???
That just doesn’t make sense, anyway, moving forward.
I have been going throw a lot this weekend, on Friday night our neighbours across the road were the victims of an armed robbery, this shook me quite a bit as we were all home and didn’t hear a thing, this makes me so happy with my choices to move down to Cape Town, don’t get me wrong there is crime down here but this was crazy and too close to home.
We are all allowed to make choices, but we need to deal with the consequences, sorry, clearly not over the disrespect I’ve dealt with over the last 48hours, its insane on how you think you know people,
Okay I am over that shit as they both don’t deserve the airtime.
I have made a pretty awesome choice to follow my heart, with caution of course, but I need to know 100% that I gave it my all when presented with an opportunity you should take it with both hands, this does create some issues but when people come into your life, give them the benefit of the doubt and let them fuck up on their own.
I am giving myself the benefit of the doubt.
Finally doing things for myself, don’t forget that when you do this, people will fall away and show their true colours, let them go and standby your choices, this is for you.